The intimacy levels explained
What levels 1 to 10 actually mean
The whole game hangs on one number. It decides how explicit an assignment is, which is why it sits at the top of the screen and why you can change it at any moment. Assignments are drawn from your exact level, never above it.
- 1Shy Beginnings
- 2Warming Up
- 3Comfortable
- 4Curious
- 5Playful
- 6Bold
- 7Daring
- 8Fearless
- 9Uninhibited
- 10No Limits
Levels 1 to 3 — talking and warming up
Conversation, attention and light, everyday touch. Questions you have never asked each other, a long hug, a compliment that lands. Good for new couples, for reconnecting after a busy period, or simply for a calm evening.
Levels 4 to 6 — curious and playful
Flirting with intent. Massage, teasing, small games with a reward, planned romance. Still comfortable in a living room, but clearly not just friendly.
Levels 7 to 8 — daring
Explicit and physical, with roleplay, sensory play and dares that need a closed door. This is where the preparation tips start to matter.
Levels 9 to 10 — uninhibited
Fearless and No Limits. Openly explicit assignments for partners who already know each other's boundaries well and talk about them easily.
Why levels move slowly
Every completed assignment is worth 10 points and every level needs 100, so it takes ten assignments to move up. That pace is deliberate: it gives you time to get used to a level before the game suggests anything bolder.
Going back down is normal
A level is not a score to defend. If something felt like too much, drag the slider back down and the assignments follow you immediately. You can also switch off entire categories from your settings.