Segs Up Your Life — The Intimacy WheelThe Intimacy Wheel

How the intimacy wheel works

Two wheels, one shared decision. The first wheel picks who is up, the second picks the type of assignment. Everything is matched to the comfort level you set together.

1. Set your level

   Pick a number from 1 to 10 on the slider. Level 1 is a conversation, level 10 is adventurous. You can move it at any time.

2. Spin both wheels

   The Who wheel names a person, the What wheel picks a category. You get one assignment that fits your level, with tips and any preparation you need.

3. Complete and level up

   Mark an assignment as done to earn 10 points. Ten assignments move you to the next level, so the game grows with you instead of ahead of you.

Eight categories, from talking to adventurous

Every category has its own assignments for each of the ten levels, so the tone always matches where you are. Switch off any category that does not suit you.

• Connection & Conversation

  Words, eyes, and honesty.

• Touch & Intimacy

  Slow hands, clear boundaries.

• Spicy & Adventurous

  Playful edges, always consensual.

• Playful Games

  Light competition, warm rewards.

• Romance & Care

  Small gestures that land big.

• Fantasy & Roleplay

  Stories you both agree to tell.

• Sensory Play

  Taste, scent, sound, and skin.

• Dares & Surprises

  Spontaneous, opt-in, memorable.

The 1 to 10 intimacy scale

The scale runs from Shy Beginnings to No Limits. Assignments are drawn from your exact level, so you always play within the zone you agreed on.

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